Relationships mean different things to different people.
That said what if you are a woman and you would like you guy to work more on his appearance?
There is a delicate line to go by in seeking this and not coming across as too nagging.
With this in mind, what steps can you take to drop some hints to him that his appearance could improve with work?
Getting the Message Across
In helping your guy work on his appearance, where best to begin?
For starters, you do not want to come across as condescending in any manner. Doing so could put a crimp in the relationship.
That said talk to him in a nice manner so he understands you are not trying to be mean and more.
Among some areas you may want to discuss:
- His clothing – Is your guy a sharp dresser or his threads need some work? If the latter, you may want to ask him for some suggestions on clothes you could buy for him. These can be for his birthday, an anniversary, the holidays or simply because you care. If you do not already know his sizes, find out. In doing so, you can now buy some clothes for him to improve his wardrobe.
- His face – This can be a little tricky as you do not want to come off as being too critical here. That said would you like him to work on his facial appearance in any particular manner? As an example, does he have facial hair? If so, is he not doing a good enough job when it comes to keeping it neat and trim? Some guys do in fact let their facial hair get the better of them over time. If he needs some new shaving accessories, going online is always a good start. He can do reviews of Harry’s shave club and other brands if he so chooses. Doing so can lead him to a better shaving experience for a long time to come.
- His home – While you may not think changing the look of how he lives at home can help his appearance, think again. If his place is a mess, this can have an impact on his appearance and how he carries himself in front of others. So, you may be in a position to help him with straightening up his home. A cleaner and more organized life can lead to him having more time to work on his look.
- His weight – Has your guy gotten to a point and time where his weight has gotten the better of him? If so, this can be a problem on different fronts. Not only can it impact his appearance, but it can have a negative impact on his health. It may come down to a better diet and being more active. The more active comes in the form of regular exercise. This can be a task that you work on together for the well-being of both of you.
In looking to get your man cleaned up, any idea where you might want to begin the process?